It’s not news that men of nowadays will do anything to please women they are in a relationship with or interested in.
Most men act childish when they are really in love and this has cost them a great deal. It is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one stupid and senseless. As a man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines to know what’s favorable and what’s not.
Most men act childish when they are really in love and this has cost them a great deal. It is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one stupid and senseless. As a man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines to know what’s favorable and what’s not.
I'm not saying you shouldn’t be romantic or make your woman happy, don't misquote me please. it is good to be romantic but not to the detriment of yourself and you should know that, just because something might be done in the name of love does not make it the right thing to do.
So today on my blog, i want to share with you guys 10 EXPENSIVE Mistake you shouldn't make just to please or make your woman. You'll enjoy it, trust me. But don't forget to tell me how you feel about it after reading via the comment box.
Here they are, the few you should try as much as possible to avoid or never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.
1. STEAL FOR YOUR WOMAN
Obviously, we all know where this will end. and by the time you will be back, someone might have taken your place. so don't ever allow anything push you to steal in order to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually stole a gift for her, she might or probably dump you for another guy, unless of course, you are in it together like Bonny and Clyde. Lol
Obviously, we all know where this will end. and by the time you will be back, someone might have taken your place. so don't ever allow anything push you to steal in order to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually stole a gift for her, she might or probably dump you for another guy, unless of course, you are in it together like Bonny and Clyde. Lol
2. SPONSOR HER EDUCATION COMPLETELY
I'm not saying It's a bad thing to support her education, you can help but to taking full responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them, ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to many men.
I'm not saying It's a bad thing to support her education, you can help but to taking full responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them, ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to many men.
3. BUY HER A HOUSE WHEN YOU OWN NON
It really baffles me when I hear men telling stories of how they've acquired luxury house for their lover's, when they don't have any anywhere, not even in their villages. Common sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not favor her and think of yours later. Building a house for a woman when you don’t have one for yourself is very wrong in every way. You might not get me right now until When she finally jilts you and lives in it with another man. My mind tells me There are many men still biting their fingers over this.
It really baffles me when I hear men telling stories of how they've acquired luxury house for their lover's, when they don't have any anywhere, not even in their villages. Common sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not favor her and think of yours later. Building a house for a woman when you don’t have one for yourself is very wrong in every way. You might not get me right now until When she finally jilts you and lives in it with another man. My mind tells me There are many men still biting their fingers over this.
4. FIGHT YOUR FELLOW MAN BECAUSE OF HER
Fighting because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen, either the person beats you to a pulp and end up in the hospital or you will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win. Unless it is for "self-defense".
5. REJECT YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE OF HER
Hell No! Your family is everything and no matter what, you shouldn't reject them because your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to reject your family all because of a woman. She might end dumping you for another man, then you'll spend the rest of your life without a family. Would you like it that way? Sit yourself down and give it a second though!
Hell No! Your family is everything and no matter what, you shouldn't reject them because your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to reject your family all because of a woman. She might end dumping you for another man, then you'll spend the rest of your life without a family. Would you like it that way? Sit yourself down and give it a second though!
6. CHANGE YOUR APPEARANCE
These days, there are many men doing a lot, taking pills to make changes to their bodies all because they feel that’s what women love, some even bleach their skin. Changing your normal self to please a woman means the moment you stop trying she’ll go, ideally, people you be with should love you for who you are. I'm I right? Think about it bro!
These days, there are many men doing a lot, taking pills to make changes to their bodies all because they feel that’s what women love, some even bleach their skin. Changing your normal self to please a woman means the moment you stop trying she’ll go, ideally, people you be with should love you for who you are. I'm I right? Think about it bro!
7. GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS TO SATISFY HER
So there are many men out there who gave up on their dreams to help their woman achieve theirs or were discouraged by women. These same women dumped them afterwards. Never do this after reading this, I beg of you.
So there are many men out there who gave up on their dreams to help their woman achieve theirs or were discouraged by women. These same women dumped them afterwards. Never do this after reading this, I beg of you.
8. BEING OVER-SUBMISSIVE
It is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and don’t try to always appear weak to her and succumb to all her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually hate weak men and will prefer you’re sweet and sour.
It is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and don’t try to always appear weak to her and succumb to all her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually hate weak men and will prefer you’re sweet and sour.
9. STARVE YOURSELF FOR HER
Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.
Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.
10.KILL OR DIE FOR HER
Never ever even think about executing such an atrocity for a woman no matter how convincing the situation is, because if you end up in jail, another man will take your position.
Never ever even think about executing such an atrocity for a woman no matter how convincing the situation is, because if you end up in jail, another man will take your position.
So many men have committed suicide because of a woman. What’s the sense in it when you’re finally dead and gone. I'll advice you Live to fight another day.
Ladies and gentle men, I'm sure you must have learnt one or two this from today's relationship Goals. Don't be selfish, share what you've learnt with your friends and loved ones.